Cat...

You said in the beginning that you didn't have any ulterior motives but it appears now that you had malicious intentions all along.  Some of us were excited to meet you and anxious to develop a relationship with you.  It seemed you were excited about it as well.

But now, almost a year later, your true colors are showing and it seems as if you want to get drama started and try to pit us against each other.  I know you grew up as an only child, so maybe you don't realize, that even when we don't like each other we are going to have each others backs against outside influences.  And you are an outside influence.  You don't have any desire to become part of this family, obviously, because of all the mean, hateful things you have said.  You have put all of us down at one time or another and even went so far as to make up lies.  And yes - we talk among ourselves and everything you say to one of us will eventually be repeated to all.  That's what we do.

I know you probably are doing this so you can feel superior and feel better about the fact that you were adopted.  Since you have such a bad opinion of us all, I can assume that you have completed that goal and have no need to continue with pretending that you want relationships with any of us.  You have made it perfectly clear you do not have respect for any of us.

Just because we share DNA with you, doesn't mean you are family.  This has been a very disappointing experience and I hope you can find the validation you are looking for somewhere else.